~melody of memory~: 2009

Sunday, April 19, 2009

Friday, March 27, 2009

A 91-year-old woman died after living a very long dignified life. When she met God, she asked Him something that had really bothered her for a very long time. “If Man was created in God’s image, and if all men are created equal, why do people treat each other so badly?”

God replied that each person who enters our life has a unique lesson to teach us. It is only through these lessons that we learn about life, people and our relationships with God. This confused the woman, so God began to explain:

“When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always what they seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look beyond the masks people wear if you want to know what is in their hearts. Remove your own masks to let people know who you really are.

When someone steals from you it teaches you that nothing is forever. Always appreciate what you have. You never know when you might lose it. Never take your friends or family for granted, because today and sometimes only this very moment is the only guarantee you may have.

When someone inflicts injury upon you, it teaches you that the human state is a very fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as best as you can, it’s the one thing that you are sure to have forever.

When someone mocks you, it teaches you that no two people are alike. When you encounter people who are different from you, do not judge them by how they look or act, instead base it on the contents of what is in their hearts.

When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone does not always mean that the person will love you back. But don’t turn your back on love, because when you find the right person, the joy that one person brings you will make up for all of your past hurts. Times a thousand fold.

When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that everyone makes mistakes. When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can do is forgive the offender without pretense. Forgiving those who have hurt us is often the most difficult and painful of life’s experiences, but it is also the most courageous thing a person can do.

When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting temptation is Man’s greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your resistance against all temptations. By doing so, you will be rewarded with an enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you were tempted.

When someone cheats you, it teaches you that greed is the root of all evil. Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be. Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.

When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect. Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws. Do not ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no control.”

Upon hearing the Lord’s wisdom, the old woman became concerned that there are no lessons to be learned from man’s good deeds. God replied that Man’s capacity to love is the greatest gift He has. At the root of kindness and love, and each act of love also teaches us a lesson. The woman’s curiosity deepened. God, once again began to explain:

“When someone loves us, it teaches us love, kindness, charity, honesty, humility, forgiveness, acceptance, and all of these can counteract all the evil in the world. For every good deed, there is one evil deed. Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often abused.

When you enter someone’s life, whether by plan, chance or coincidence, consider what your lesson will be. Will you teach love or a harsh lesson of reality? When you die, will your life have resulted in more loving or more hurting? More comfort or more pain? More joy or more sadness? Each one of us has the power over the balance of the love in the world. Use it wisely!”

Don’t miss an opportunity to nudge the world’s scale in the right direction!

What are you choose in your life?

Life is all about choices. When you cut away all the junk, every situation is a choice. You choose how you react to situations. You choose how people will affect your mood. You choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line: It's your choice how you live life.

"Each morning I wake up and say to myself, evelyn, you have two choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you can choose to be in a bad mood.

I choose to be in a good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. I choose to learn from it. Although i will cry sometime, but i know that i can grow with tear.

Every time someone comes to me complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I can point out the positive side of life. I choose the positive side of life. Don't think too much, it will become better in the end..

I appreciate all of the things in my life because i believe everyday is a hope and full of surprise. No matter today is a good/bad day. it is my life...I'm responsible to living in a happy life for myself.

See...I can choose my life then you also can choose how you start your day tomorrow...

Wednesday, February 18, 2009

612 planet

滿園玫瑰我以為找到我那一朵
認真愛了卻狠狠刺傷我的雙手
責備什麼人也沒有用
玫瑰都紅難免看錯
望著天空愛是否活在童話里頭
小王子說有些事流浪過才會懂
原來每顆心都有個洞
找不到真愛會一直寂寞

我但愿有一個人在等我
在屬於我的612星球
好讓我忍著痛也愿意往下走
不快樂至少要有夢
一定會有一個人在等我
無條件擁抱著我的所有
相遇前我還要翻越多少山丘
花別謝太快請你等等我

擦干眼淚一個人漂流在這宇宙
小王子說愛一定開在某個角落
路上相愛的人那麼多
我會幸福嗎在什麼時候

我但愿有一個人在等我
在屬於我的612星球
好讓我忍著痛也愿意往下走
不快樂至少要有夢
一定會有一個人在等我（等等我）
無條件擁抱著我的所有
相遇前我還要翻越多少山丘
花別謝太快請你等等我

我但愿有一個人在等我
在屬於我的612星球
好讓我忍著痛也愿意往下走
不快樂至少要有夢
一定會有一個人在等我（尚在等我）
無條件擁抱著我的所有
相遇前我還要翻越多少山丘

花別謝太快請你等等我

This song is composed by a children story book which name "The Little Prince". I am touching by song again. Maybe i am emo or emotional this few days, but i can't deny that i'm an emotional people.

The Little Prince is one of my favorite books.In the book, The Little Prince makes several profound and idealistic points about life and human nature. Saint-Exupéry tells of meeting a young prince in the middle of the Sahara.From the story, I love the famous line uttered by the fox to the Little Prince: "On ne voit bien qu'avec le cœur. L'essentiel est invisible pour les yeux." (One cannot see well except with the heart. The essential is invisible to the eyes). Other key thematic messages are articulated by the fox, such as: "You become responsible, forever, for what you have tamed" and "It is the time you have spent with your rose that makes your rose so important." wow..it is so meaningful.

In the song, it said "sure got someone still waiting for me" and "it make me continue to walk with pain". In my perception, I believe that all the people in the worlds are adam and eve.We are finding our adam/eve everytime. Look around you, maybe your adam/eve is beside you and waiting for you. I believe that somebody is waiting for me in one of the corner in the world. Why not you think it like me?please don't give up...

Sunday, February 15, 2009

love song

This a nice songs which is sing by taylor swift.I was crying when the first time i hear "white horse" .After that, i start to love this songs. i am repeat listening it everyday.It really touch my heart.I believe that all the people got their own love story in their heart.No matter it is a sad story or happy ending, it is still an experience in our life.Although it is hurt, but it make us grow.I believe that every obstacles presents an opportunity to improve one's condition. Sometimes struggles are exactly what we need in our lives. If God allowed us to go through our lives without any obstacles, it would cripple us.We would not be as strong as what we could have been. We could never fly.Love is one of the lesson in our life. Let us grow with love...

Thursday, February 5, 2009

FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE

*Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
*Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
*Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
*You can only go as far as you push.
*Actions speak louder than words.
*The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
*Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff.
*Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while, you might miss it.
*A best friend is like a four leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have.
*If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else.
*When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there
*True friendship never ends.
*Friends are forever.
*Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
*Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.
*What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
*NOBODY IS PERFECT UNTIL YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM. (Isn't that the truth?)
*Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.

When we look back on our younger years, we will remember the people who went to school with us, the people who made us laugh, the people who hung out with us when nobody else would, and the people who made our lives much better simply by being a part of it.

There may be somebody who is thinking about you RIGHT NOW and wishing that you were around. That's the wonderful thing about friendship-you always feel loved and cared about.

The most important thing to remember is... Always appreciate the friends that you have.

A fight may come and go very easily, but a friendship could last forever.

For every second spent in anger, a minute of happiness is wasted. So, I always appreciate every moment with my friends.

Most people walk in and out of you life. But only True friends leave footprints in your heart.

Thanks for willing become my best friends, i love you all....

yunnie, qing , diamond club ( dear, honey, darling, son and da ge), Mr Jco, zhi ji ren (tian, kw, grass, small rice), grace, wen,rossie club ( mei, net, boy..), turtle club ( nana, ban zhang, shen, uncle...)and all my friends beside me....

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